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Anonymous
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No.1401
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I'm coming to my wits end with this shit. I'm getting tired of feeling drained and passionless towards what I used to love. I want to write again. I want to enjoy playing games again. I want to wake up and not feel like I got to fap first just to get out of bed. I want to feel something other then nothing.

The thing is when I try I always fall right back in. I've made it three days and I saw some cleavage and suddenly got horny I thought I would collapse. I left and had to drive home but the urge would go away! I couldn't fight it and I felt so disgusted with myself. The moment I got home, I had to jerk it.

How do you guys deal with these urges? How do I get a life back?
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Anonymous
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No.1477
>>1476
>grill BJed you
Well congrats. Although I'll admit that I lost my virginity at late 18/early 19 years old. First lay was amazing, mostly because the girl had my preferred morbidly fucking obese body type, but we didn't connect on any level past that and after the second lay I just kinda slinked away. I mostly left because she was a swinger and took me to a swinger club where people saw me fug her. Really made me feel uncomfortable. Where our first fug was in a comfy king-sized bed in a rented room, our second was on a twin bed and had a bunch of club rules to follow for instance we literally had to lay down piddle pads under us and we couldn't close the door, draw the curtain on the window-wall, or turn the above-bed LED lights down.

I've felt the urge to fap but I haven't fapped since I broke my streak on Friday night. I'm gonna aim for the night after I move out of this house and into the next. Little over a week, and I have productive things to do to keep my hands from being idle.

By the way, you have good taste in mares. That's a classic pudgy qt.
Anonymous
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>>1476
>I'm not worth the time
Not quite.
Anonymous
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>>1476
Great Anon. I'm Glad you got the Succ.
>Tfw Incel
Anonymous
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No.1480
>>1479
I don't know how on earth people have trouble getting laid lmao.

I mean, I absolutely get having trouble finding a stable relationship, but like....I lost my virginity after dating twice at a fucking Denny's with someone I met in the /fit/ fatfuck general. I didn't even go there seeking anyone, I just asked about workout partners and she almost immediately asked if I wanted to fuck. All it takes is finding a female in your area who shares something in common with you enough to chat a little, and either the courage to invite her to your place or the luck to find a girl who'll do that for you.
Anonymous
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>>1401
the same happened to me until a day I felt so wrong and disgusted with myself that I simply said to myself: I will stop.
That was in July of 2018 and I've lasted since then
Anonymous
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>>1487
Wow! Just wow. That's impressive
Anonymous
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>>1488
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Super Checked.
Anonymous
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Well you Nons, I'm going to make a new effort! I'm going for Saturday! But I got to ask when I wake up that's when I usually fap, any suggestions for counteracting this?
Anonymous
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No.1493
>>1492
>any suggestions for counteracting this?
I think that if you decide to get out of bed instead of relaxing and starting to think about it will help. I know it is good to just relax for a while, but if you don't give yourself the opportunity you will have a better chance. If you got spare time in the morning perhaps with a little jog you will get double benefits. You get in better shape (no matter what form you are in already) and you will maintain the nofap.
Best of luck, and know we are all rooting for you to succeed.
Anonymous
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I don't care what everyone says about you guys. You're all so awesome! I'm so happy to be apart of the great grand herd!

Protect the purity of our white mares!
Anonymous
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>>1492
Get dressed. Right away, don't wait. Make some coffee and then drink it. Talk to people in or around your household. Insert behaviors in and around when you fap to disrupt your cycle. You can do this anon, we believe in you.
Anonymous
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>>1495
>talk to people in or around your household
I live in an urban nightmare-scape. My housemates are a fake-autistic crybully and an old lady barely capable of having conversations under three hours long. That's not an exaggeration. I moved in and I literally spent 3 hours standing in the front door repeatedly saying I had to go get the rest of my stuff.

Talking with people fucking sucks. I do enough of it at work.
Anonymous
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>>1496
Assertiveness training is a whole different can of worms, but it could help in your mental conditioning. The more socially maladjusted a person is, the less likely they are to observe norms and show consideration. In the case of older people trust me, I know if they are not going to permit you the opportunity to disengage without being rude, then you will simply have to be rude. Its not being rude for the shit of it (technically, its not even being rude, its about having an appreciation for your own time, interests, and schedule) its about maintaining boundaries. Just because you start talking to them doesn't mean you're obligated to sit through every possible thing they might say. Think of video games, if the person is repeating themselves or going off on irrelevant tangents, you can simply walk away or skip the conversation entirely (depending on the game's mechanics). You can even call yourself out for it to lessen the blow: "I'm sorry for being rude, but I really have to get to other things." and then with decisive certainty follow through. You don't need a person's permission to walk away, and if you stick around or show a lack of conviction in your body language then your statement will be interpreted as a request to end the conversation (which can be declined or more likely ignored), which it is not.
Talking with people might not be the best thing to do admittedly, its just an idea of an activity that you can engage in that activates different areas of the brain than the ones that ordinarily lead to fapping.
Anonymous
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No.1498
I forgot to mention that this is 1e641 speaking. I moved houses so this is my new permanent ID for the thread at least for the next year unless things go differently than planned

>>1497
>you can simply walk away or skip the conversation entirely (depending on the game's mechanics)
Dark Soouuuuuls. If you know who I am, I have a boner for that game, can you guys tell uwu

>You can even call yourself out for it to lessen the blow: "I'm sorry for being rude, but I really have to get to other things." and then with decisive certainty follow through
I like this advice. Seems obvious in hindsight but I really do hate to follow through on it. I prefer for a conversation to take its course before disengaging but I will keep that in mind.

>if you stick around or show a lack of conviction in your body language then your statement will be interpreted as a request to end the conversation (which can be declined or more likely ignored), which it is not.
That is legitimately great advice, friend. Thank you.
Anonymous
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No.1508
A very relevant video for more than just handling anger.

Mr. Rodgers: "What do you do with the mad that you feel"
https://youtu.be/4AtLIJjEbh4
Anonymous
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Op here.

Guys, when you nofap, do any of you get issues with rage? Getting mad at little things. So mad you can't think even if it's a really simple solution.

Alsp, update on that girl, I don't want to deal with her shit! I need to CTRL Z this shit! Stop texting me! I don't want to listen to how horrible your ex-husbamd is! Stop! Stop guilt tripping me!
Anonymous
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No.1517
>>1407
>I'm terrible with women
I don't know why people think it's something you are born with. Go out and practice. Yeah, you are going to get shut down, and that's ok. Be glad when you get shut down, it's the clearest signal you should try something else.


Anonymous
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No.1518
>>1510
I've been there, that's your HEART FIRING ON ALL FUCKING CYLINDERS! I love that feeling. It's rage, it's passion, it's stopping to appreciate the beauty and nature, it's sweating the semen out of your brain and getting mad at the shit you FUCKING SHOULD BE MAD AT!
That bitch can fuck off, put your foot down and tell her to cut that shit out. If she wants to spend time with you, she has to cut that shit out. Trust me, you'll give her ovaries boners by putting your foot down. But be willing to be okay with it if she's such a little bitch, she gets scared off by your alpha male act. This isn't sarcasm, I'm genuinely fucking serious. Treat women like they have to be worthy of your attention, make them change themselves to suit you, they love that. They hate that you let them get away with treating you like a low-class man.
Anonymous
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Day 7 of No Nut November. im feeling stronger boys. Who else is /NNN/ Here?
Anonymous
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>>1882
Me and I'm also totally fine here. It's easier the busier you are, so finding something fun to do is recommended!
Anonymous
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>>1882

I'm still in.

I was working the last 7 days in a row and it kept me busy from fapping, now I have a day off, its raining outside and there's nothing to do.. help me bros!
Anonymous
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>>1884
>help me bros!
You can do it poner.
Just keep your mind busy SOLVING PROBLEMS!
Anonymous
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>>1884
Reinforcements are on the way poner.
Anonymous
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I failed NNN within a week. I only have about a week left before I have to have a job with pay, which so far has not happened in almost 3 months. I've already talked to my landlord about leaving next month and after that, I'm going to take my leave from California permanently. I have no job prospects, no contacts for bunking or financial help, and not even one month's rent in my debit account.

Why bother with no nut when I've got nothing left
Anonymous
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I failed no nut november yesterday.
Anonymous
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>>1888
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>>1882
Day 9 boys, i think im gonna make it. although my dreams have gotten more sexual than usual
Anonymous
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Hey all, does cross-board posting work?
>W-well, this is me...
>>>/mlpol/250145 →

I just realized my streak came to an end 1 day shy of 30 days. That's like fapping on November 30. I am legitimately sickened with myself.

>>1888
Rough, but you can hang in there. Leaving a place with an exorbitant cost-of-living is probably a good idea. Know where you are heading?
Anonymous
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>>1895
>I am legitimately sickened with myself.
Don't be.
Take it as a training to govern over the flesh.
Anonymous
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>>1893
Day 11 still going strong.
Anonymous
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>>1896
>Take it as a training to govern over the flesh.
Agreed, and I also took up lifting as a part of governing myself. Which was very hard today, I even had to take my OHP down in weight as my normal weight was just too heavy today. Maybe there is something to the nofap superpowers meme.

Day 1 in the books, I will recover. To all still in the NNN game, hang in there bros. A better you awaits on the other side.
Anonymous
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>>1899
>superpowers
You begin to feel them.
Anonymous
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>>1401
Rewire your brain, spend 10 days not fapping, then make a rule:
"I can only cum inside a woman"
Take that phrase to heart, force your brain to forget touching your dick for pleasure is a thing, instead of having for objetive "not touching myself" use as an objetive "i should get a girl to fuck"

Repeat these exercises every day till you really believe touching your dick will be useless. You can do it anon.
Also stop watching erotic stuff, i'm currently 28 days in and i can tell you, porn has an effect on you so dont watch it.
Anonymous
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i had a wet dream this morning, does it count as a fail? Even if it does i'm still going to not masturbate
Anonymous
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>>1902
That depends more on you than any prescription anon. Do you feel it was a fail? Given your resolve I don't think that it was. The point of NNN AFAIK is to curb masturbatory behavior and irresponsible sexual habits.
Anonymous
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>>1903
i don't feel as if it was a fail, it was out of my control
Anonymous
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>>1904
Then don't worry about it, your hands are clean
Anonymous
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>>1401
I lasted as long as I could from the start of No Nut November to now. I've lived my whole life as a masturbation addict so this was a challenge, the longest I've ever gone without it was two weeks.
How'd I do this time around?
Anonymous
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>>1906
A good start. Now you and I both can work on making it to the end of the month.
Anonymous
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No.1910
Never forget if you feel the urge of failing NoNut just know where there is a whip there is a way.
https://youtu.be/Gqvb_n8NZJ8

Motivation of any kind, and reprogramming the brain, mind, and body. Reshaping them by and for your own will, and purposes.
Anonymous
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>>1909
Day 14, i actually feel somewhat happier than i did 14 days ago.
Anonymous
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>>1912
Write down the successes, how you feel, and if you ever feel an overwhelming urge look back on the entries you've made to regain the strength to continue onwards.
Anonymous
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Day 15 and I'm feeling it.
Anonymous
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It just came out:
>Groypers, Coomers and Kochsuckers - E. Michael Jones on the Groypcast
>No Nut November is in full swing, and people are abstaining from self abuse, pornography and seeking Logos. Dr. Jones discusses the pornography industry, it's use as a weapon of social control, and how to fight vice and foster virtue.
https://www.bitchute.com/video/bVTXBcVYgtQ/

Anonymous
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>Put the mouse down, Coomer
>A bunch of guys around the Western world, and elsewhere, dedicated themselves to not jerking off and not watching porn for a full month, and dealing with all of the consequences, both positive and negative, that come from this - i.e. blue balls, sleepless nights, significant physical needs going unmet, plus heightened energy and awareness, significantly higher sex drive, far more desire for spiritual meaning and balance, and so on. They choose, of their own free will, to dedicate themselves to physical, mental, and spiritual purity, engaging in serious self-discipline and abstinence in the process.
>The SJWs of the world react by calling a refusal to masturbate fascist!!!11!!, and a refusal to watch porn misogynistic!!!!!!
>These are the same SJWs who say that pr0n objectifies women and reduces them to sex objects, and now they object to men not wanting to turn women into sex objects.
>In other words - by exercising a bit of restraint, men got SJWs to defend degeneracy and completely contradict themselves.
>You can't make this shit up, man. It's pure comedic gold.
http://didactsreach.blogspot.com/2019/11/put-mouse-down-coomer.html

>No Nut November (The Coomer)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UO4N2qQdwuI
Anonymous
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>>1922
Some comments.
Anonymous
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Day 19 and it's like every insecurity I've ever had about being alone and unloved has been magnified by a thousand. At the very least my interactions with other people has been pretty decent, but I've gotten much more autistic with my behavior. Today I told another one of my classmates to their face they were a dick and to fuck off, it just slipped out by accident.
Anonymous
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>>1927
>Day 19 and it's like every insecurity I've ever had about being alone and unloved has been magnified by a thousand
It will go away.
>I've gotten much more autistic with my behavior
Good news. It sounds to me like you are getting more assertive and self confident.

Anonymous
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No.1929
>>1927
>>1928
Agreed. Fapping regularly places the body in an artificially satiated state, tricking it into thinking that it is spreading its seed per its biological imperative to do so. Its re-calibrating to properly function with increased reserves of testosterone, the symptom of which is finding yourself less inclined to put up with people's bullshit.
You may be less accustomed to this, but it is a good and natural thing.

Anonymous
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OH FUCK LOOK AT THOSE ANIME TITA TATA PIXELATED BALLOONS WHAT A FUCKING SIGHT TO COOM TO
OH SHIT IS THAT A FUCKING HORSEPUSSY?!?!?! THAT'S SOME QUALITY MAREJUICE RIGHT THERE OW MY FUCKING DICK CAN'T STOP BEATING MY MEAT MUST. COOOOOM. SOOOOOON.
OH SHIT 5 HOURS OF JERKING ALREADY? BETTER END THIS NIGHT WITH A BANGER BUST
UGHHHHH FUUUUCK I'M GONNANANANA GONNA COOOOOOOM
Anonymous
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>>1401
Well lads, its with sadness that i inform you that i failed /NNN/ this morning. let the roasting commence i deserve it.